tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42025539409515400752024-02-07T04:24:43.951+00:00thebabyandthebathwaterchoices about worship - the blog of neil bennettsNeil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.comBlogger81125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-10535667750532232642009-01-17T18:01:00.002+00:002009-01-17T18:02:42.342+00:00MovingThis blog has now moved to<br /><br /><a href="http://thebabyandthebathwater.wordpress.com">www.thebabyandthebathwater.wordpress.com</a><br /><br /><br />see you there I hopeNeil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-3757285245833632262009-01-16T12:32:00.002+00:002009-01-16T12:32:55.938+00:00The Greatest LegacyThe greatest legacy we can leave for the next generation is the fruit of our obedience to God.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-12438859171048739192009-01-14T20:44:00.001+00:002009-01-14T20:46:21.202+00:00The Biggest Challenge for the churchAt this point in history at the beginning of the 21st century I think one of the biggest challenges to the worldwide church is not that it won’t be able to devise programs of evangelism, that it won’t be able to run mercy ministries to the poor, or that it won’t be able to find it’s political voice in our nations. It’s biggest challenge is to hold on to the wonder of, experience the life changing power of, and devote itself passionately to it’s gathered, sung worship.<br /><br />(quote is mine)Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-7790959745835259232008-12-27T11:04:00.004+00:002008-12-27T11:07:46.787+00:00Thoughts for the yearIn the second post of my year end review, here are some sayings this year that I have found helpful.<br /><br />1. You don’t need to have a mac book pro and an avalon guitar to lead worship well, but it does help.<br /><br />2. Walk more slowly and surely. Real fruit, more often than not, comes from a steady, persistent, non-dramatic, walk with God.<br /><br />3. Enjoy the big conference, event, or central concert where everything seems so perfect. But don’t mistake it for church. Church has much more to do with people turning up late, guitars being out of tune, ear-splitting feedback, and playing ‘how great is our god’ again.<br /><br />4. Take coffee more seriously. It really does effect your anointing.<br /><br />5. The Christian worship CD market is all but over. Deal with it.<br /><br />6. Remember that most leadership is about bringing about change. If you constantly feel like you are stretching your team slightly beyond where they want to be, then you may just be doing some things right.<br /><br />7. You get most things done in church because of relationship. Structures can help, but there’s no value in becoming structurally strong and relationally weak. Whole churches and church movements die because they don’t understand this.<br /><br />8. See if you can get through the next year without singing ‘Shine Jesus Shine’. I’ve done it for 7 years in a row now. My soul feel alive.<br /><br />9. Stop knocking Graham Kendrick.<br /><br />10. Acknowledge that for most church congregations, worship is like jelly. It is messy and wobbles a lot. The worst thing worship leaders can do is try and nail it to a wall.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-55974759069945266252008-12-22T18:59:00.004+00:002008-12-22T19:04:27.520+00:00I'm a MACOne of my friends caught this picture whilst we were setting up for our Carol Service at Cheltenham Racecourse yesterday.<br /><br />It portrays one of my highest values in life.<br /><br />You can see some sensible pictures on our church website <a href="http://trinitycheltenham.com/">www.trinitycheltenham.com</a><br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgptxcS13Dshkm0oYBEAAkV1zLHfekLTcizP-QkwNAfvgM3KGwT47VjI1njQenmKaFLcVovbarkF1vBMKkyDbun3vyyBZz9qt3KLiV4GeBDJYRI3q-1VTEnFEzndjkPIvmM8_a1KSNw9iI/s1600-h/christmas-016.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgptxcS13Dshkm0oYBEAAkV1zLHfekLTcizP-QkwNAfvgM3KGwT47VjI1njQenmKaFLcVovbarkF1vBMKkyDbun3vyyBZz9qt3KLiV4GeBDJYRI3q-1VTEnFEzndjkPIvmM8_a1KSNw9iI/s400/christmas-016.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282691997415869234" border="0" /></a>Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-65668091896187785102008-12-17T19:02:00.003+00:002008-12-17T19:07:53.016+00:00Wonderful CD'sAs 2008 draws to a close, it is good to reflect on some worship things. And in my seasonal reflections, I want to start with some worship cd's.<br /><br />OK, so regular readers of my blog know that I am a little tired of most worship cd's. But there have been some recently that have made their way into my car stereo and been given a few - sometimes more than a few - airings. They stay in my car stereo because they actually lift my Spirit and help me encounter God - yes even in the car.<br /><br />I would do a top 10 list. But actually I think I can only find 4 I like.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Break the Silence - Johnny Parks</span><br /><br />This has been in my car for months now - most of the last year in fact. I think it actually came out in 2007, but I only picked it up this year. It is a beautiful album, with a couple of incredible musical and emotional moments. There is a real depth to the lyrics that seems to be born out of a desire to worship rather than just write songs - depth that is also reflected in the arrangements and the mixes which are powerful but not harsh. If I have one gripe - although it's a minor one - it seems that it's almost impossible these days to get a worship album 'for this generation' that doesn't start with an overdone, energetic guitar riff predictably diving into an uptempo sort of anthem type thing. Why is that? Is it just that I am now not 'this generation' so 'don't understand'.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">This is our God - Hillsong</span><br /><br />Famed in the summer for it's inclusion of the song 'healer' by fallen pastor Mike Gugliellmucci, this is a great album. In fact, I still really like the song 'healer' although understandably it's not really being used in churches since. My children, mercifully unaffected by the sad story that surrounds it, still love the song and keep asking for us to play it. An innocence that we as parents want to protect for a lot longer. This song aside, there are still some other great songs, including 'stronger' and the title track. Creatively, though, it is much the same as previous Hillsong albums. But actually in this case it doesn't bother me. This, after all, is essentially a church at worship and they are just being themselves. That's fine by me. Only gripe? Well the first couple of songs are a bit 'out there' and start with that usual guitar riff thing......<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Nothing to Fear - David Gate</span><br /><br />Previously of Survivor Records, but now just doing stuff in and for and with church (my church!), David released his latest album that he also produced himself. Can't say enough things positive about these songs and this album. It starts well, too (No guitar riff). Sonically this is very different to anything else I've heard in a while. The instruments sound like what they are meant to sound like - much more acoustic and real than on most over-produced albums. Songs are great. None of mine, though, so it only gets 9.5/10 rather than the full 10/10 if one of my tunes had been on there.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Wonderful Story - Eoghan Heaslip</span><br /><br />Just out. Wonderful songs. Great vocals. Now of course I am biased as Eoghan is a friend and we have led worship together for many years. And also, Eoghan is someone who has benefited hugely from this year's x-factor - because now everyone knows how to pronounce his name...But bias aside, this is still a great cd. Eoghan and I wrote some songs together earlier in the year, and it's exciting to hear them make it on this album, and hear them produced by someone of the calibre of Nathan Nockles. The King has come, The way that you father me, What you've called me to, All to You...the list goes on. Great song after great song. The guitar riff intro is back though.......<br /><br />Now I would, of course, mention my cd too, only it came out 3 years ago. Funny though. I didn't want to listen to it for ages after I made it. But this year I have been listening to it much more. I still love the sound that Clever Trevor brought to it. The strings from Prague are awesome. James White's solos are just incredible. And there in the middle of it all somewhere is a somewhat stumbling worship leader. Anyway, as I say, I would mention it, but I've just realised that the opening track begins with this guitar riff......Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-65204144762746909582008-12-09T08:56:00.003+00:002008-12-09T09:01:23.358+00:00Songs of Praise vs Jonathan RossThere is a great article in the telegraph about songs of praise today. You can read it <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/scienceandtechnology/technology/3683391/BBC-criticised-by-church-leaders-for-paying-Jonathan-Ross-18m.html?mobile">here</a>.<br /><br />I once appeared on Songs of Praise. It was some 20 years ago, and I appeared with Graham Kendrick and Ben Castle. Our fledgling worship band at Trinity in Norwich played one of Graham’s finest tunes - Meekness and Majesty.<br /><br />There - you didn’t know I was so famous with such an auspicious cv in the media, did you?<br /><br />But let’s face it, if you are anything like me, over the last 20 years you have probably mocked Songs of Praise regularly, with it’s general cheese and old people in hats, introduced by such cheesy characters as Aled Jones. (Although there is one exception - Diane Louise Jordan makes it all worthwhile..). We all have probably publicly mocked it, whilst privately switching it on every now and then on a Sunday evening just to check up on it. Just for educational and information purposes, of course....<br /><br />Well it now transpires, if we are to believe the Telegraph, that Songs of praise was getting around the same number of viewers each week as Jonathan Ross, until he was ‘rested’ recently following that radio thing. Only of course Jonathan Ross got paid millions of pounds each year, and songs of praise got....well a lot less.<br /><br />Personally, I wouldn’t mind if Jonathan Ross disappeared from our screen forever. Admittedly he can be very, very funny, but generally I find his material offensive and overtly sexual and degrading. And of course, now he picked on one of our national treasures (Andrew Sachs) it should be curtains. He may find a home in the US for his awful material - but let the US have him if they want.<br /><br />But what is more interesting is that, somehow, the British people are valuing Songs of Praise as highly as Jonathan Ross in terms of viewing figures. And now everyone is probably seriously questioning the multi-million price tag he has, up to now, demanded.<br /><br />My own view is that, whereas over the last 20 years most people have judged things by cost, with the current financial climate, people are now judging things by value. Not only does this hopefully spell the end for Mr Ross, but it also presents us with a huge opportunity to spread and communicate hope that is Jesus Christ. There is an openness to the gospel in a way that hasn’t existed for many, many years. And as The Church we should not be dialing back on our mission, but stepping up to the mark.<br /><br />And whilst we’re about it, maybe we should start to sing the praises of Songs of Praise just a little bit more.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-68603791974939011522008-12-07T18:06:00.002+00:002008-12-07T18:13:15.558+00:00Dr Sentamu talking sense<p>Once again, Dr Sentamu stands up, and is counted.<br /></p>He says:<br /><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />“At a time when a creeping social Darwinism is on the rise, where life is measured in terms of its quality or usefulness, the Church remains the last bastion of defence for those who would find themselves close to jettison by society”. </span><p><span style="font-style: italic;"> As the recession bites, the Established Church must rediscover its confidence and self-esteem. “The Church of England must once again be a beacon by which the people of England can orientate themselves in an unknown ocean."</span></p><p>He also says:<br /> </p><p style="font-style: italic;">There is a strong case for regarding the Church as a public body that does not exist simply to serve believers.</p><p style="font-style: italic;"><br /></p><p>The case is more than strong. In my mind it's overwhelming.</p>Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-31187045787930112882008-11-15T19:57:00.004+00:002008-11-16T19:12:04.057+00:00Christmas is comingAt the moment we are preparing for Christmas at church. And this year we’ve called it ‘Wonder’.<br /><br />Wonder is one of those characteristics of life that is in very short supply. It’s pretty much counter-cultural these days to admit to live with it. We live in a world where everything boils down to an explanation. It seems that as a generation we can’t rest until we know, until we can explain, until we have the reasons. We also can’t commit to anything we don’t understand, or have all the answers about.<br /><br />One of the most quoted passages in the bible on worship is Romans 12 v1, where we are urged to be living sacrifices - wholly and pleasing to God, as this is our spiritual act of worship. Too often though we miss the word ‘therefore’ that starts this passage off. And in this case the ‘therefore’ is a response to Romans 11 that talks about the truly unfathomable, inexplicable, indescribable nature of God.<br /><br />What we are being called to, it seems, is to worship someone - God - who we will never fully know, understand, explain. In short - we are to live in a place of wonder.<br /><br />And for me, that is what keeps worship alive - keeps me searching, keeps me following, keeps me singing. The fact that I will never be able to fully understand, fully appreciate, fully comprehend God - who He is or why He does what He does.<br /><br />We in our churches and in our ministries need to live in wonder. We can’t reduce our lives as worshippers to a set of procedures, creeds or profit and loss accounts. We need to linger in the cloud a little more - not try and explain it, manage it, control it, assess it. But pause in that place where things are mysterious and let the wonder grow. It's what brings life alive.<br /><br />Christmas is a time of wonder: but that wonder should never be confined to a few days at the end of December. It should stay with us from the cradle to the grave.<br /><br />And well beyond.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-69535864155822736152008-11-13T20:19:00.003+00:002008-11-13T20:28:29.967+00:00Yes and AmenThanks to Dave Gate for putting me onto this: it’s a blog article from a pastor in Belfast.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Now I detest being told the latest worship leader is in town and we should all go to see or hear him/her. I have not bought a CD for over ten years and strangely seem no worse off in terms of my spiritual journey. If anything I am even more energised about following Jesus than I have ever been. I deplore adverts to buy worship, competitions to see who has sold the most, worship concerts, launching a CD, and “they have their own sound”. Can you imagine advertising the sale of your pastoral care, having a chart with best pastors on it, a theatre where you could come and watch someone delivering the latest pastoral care, launching your latest best pastoral care phrases in multiple languages and having a manager and a tour. Preserve me from the madness that has beset us! </span><a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.ignite.cd/blogs/adrian/index.cfm">Adrian Mccartney</a><br /><br />Most of the worship industry is now doing the church a disservice. I for one am not just holding it at arms length, but purposely walking away from it. And as I do, I find myself financially worse off, but strangely richer.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-75124874967648904492008-11-08T16:07:00.005+00:002008-11-08T16:10:52.320+00:00Change Has Come to AmericaSometimes a single image can make a point so much more profoundly than many words:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidn34qSolz3_44t_meFmGSiVbtDAe9Yy3sd3fe6Zm_2EFcWOJHFgcglV4aMaziHW_KBAHOrilxBB3KwOeSQPmWBTBrsxLObIx6SmQ8jGeNEDELIYNwuue_u3JeyEyLVWKGwULZ7O3cit4/s1600-h/obama-web1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 235px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidn34qSolz3_44t_meFmGSiVbtDAe9Yy3sd3fe6Zm_2EFcWOJHFgcglV4aMaziHW_KBAHOrilxBB3KwOeSQPmWBTBrsxLObIx6SmQ8jGeNEDELIYNwuue_u3JeyEyLVWKGwULZ7O3cit4/s400/obama-web1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5266319711803962930" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKjDcmwdIlhXidxjLT4d5PE3hGlRLJbbB69ZtFkDVlc0zG2RGCj0FI55ZfLvVpPLUeVWDtQkn8HQhA8gCCChYvaUHDulz4X7umkeJSBW1xwANMfteVjQRNS47tKX_xDkKDD5YCe_TNz38/s1600-h/obama-web1.jpg"><br /></a>Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-91672031026591277652008-11-06T21:58:00.005+00:002008-11-08T16:14:13.593+00:00The SerpentI came across this display on a recent trip to Derbyshire - it was in a great museum in a very old, Tudor house.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6Gpotw5v82jv1VxjKiBkVvQWIiZipYgJwOXDFdoCY48tKjym6a29Yt9wpRPa6_DbhM8qKW2TtDVTpjhlfQM4ID_k54cBM8aXnzK_9sAy_N3Ydwk-SkeovecAWNDyQW4rC9WuHV3Xo1sE/s1600-h/DSC_6827.gif"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6Gpotw5v82jv1VxjKiBkVvQWIiZipYgJwOXDFdoCY48tKjym6a29Yt9wpRPa6_DbhM8qKW2TtDVTpjhlfQM4ID_k54cBM8aXnzK_9sAy_N3Ydwk-SkeovecAWNDyQW4rC9WuHV3Xo1sE/s400/DSC_6827.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5266320333449315202" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />It talks about the use of an instrument in churches around that time, strangely called the serpent - clearly because of it’s shape. It says this:<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Unfortunately, the prominence given to musical expression at the expense of liturgy and the generally unihibited manner of playing and singing was not for the most part to the liking of the clergy. A Suffolk clergyman expressed himself thus in 1764:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">“The performers form themselves into a round ring, with their faces to each other and their backs to the congregation. Here they murder Anthems, chuse improper Psalms, leave off in the middle of a sentence, sing psalm</span><span style="font-style: italic;">s of all kinds to new jiggish tunes”</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">These ensembles eventually fell victim to the introduction of organs and a more sober and respectable conception of church music in the Victorian period.</span> <span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Thomas Hardy’s novel ‘Under the Greenwood Tree’ has a secondary theme which deals with the supplanting of the traditional church band by the new-fangled organ: </span> <span style="font-style: italic;">“Times have changed from the times they used to be. Barrel organs, and the things next door to ‘em that you blow wi’ your foot have come in terribly of late years. Time was when not one of the varmits was to be heard of; but it served some of the quires right. They should have stuck to strings as we did, and kept out clarinets, and done away with serpents. If you’d thrive in musical religion, stick to strings, says I. Yet there’s worse things than serpents. Old things pass away, ‘tis true; but a serpent was a good old note: a deep rich note was the serpent. Clarinets, however, be bad at all times”</span><br /><br />So let’s get this straight. The clergy were moaning about their musicians, musicians were playing badly, and organs were despised by everyone apart from the church choir.<br /><br />Now where have I heard all that before?Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-83358747537240086102008-10-17T14:28:00.006+01:002008-10-17T19:29:39.505+01:00The Language of the KingdomThe language and activity of the Kingdom seems to be something that wider church is beginning to forget. Not everywhere - I am part of a church where we push into the things of the kingdom wherever we can. Maybe we’re not great at it, and along the way we stumble and fall. But it is part of our language, and it is our whole-hearted intention to see it’s activity. But the thankfulness I have at being part of such a church is matched by a sadness that I don't see enough of it elsewhere.<br /><br />The Kingdom is quite hard to define - even after so many books have discussed it and explained it. This ‘here but not complete’, ‘come but not fulfilled’, ‘present but in the future’, ‘fully in power but not fully revealed’ kingdom still manages to be surrounded in mystery, but is central to our lives as followers of the King.<br /><br />Often the kingdom’s activity is momentary, surprising, and unpredictable, and so as fast as we try and devise formulas and courses and training programs to capture it, it moves on and we are left scrabbling to keep up. But in the kingdom, opportunities present themselves in the 'here and now' and need a 'here and now' response. We can prepare for the moment, but not predict when it will come.<br /><br />And of course the Kingdom is totally King-centred. The activity of the kingdom always gives glory and honour and recognition and wisdom and power back to the King. There is no other shareholder, there is no other stake-holder, no political power-sharing agreement in place. The Kingdom is the King’s. The correct order of this universe is that the King comes first. There is no second place.<br /><br />And ultimately the kingdom grows when we give it space to breath. And this can only happen when we intentionally give the King permission to be the King. Our motives, selfishness, and ministry aspirations can all crowd Him out.<br /><br />And worship is at the heart of the kingdom. Not only the day-to-day lifestyle of worship, but the intentional coming-together-and-singing-the-songs worship. As we worship we lay down our agendas and welcome His agenda. As we lift up holy hands we are raising a banner high that says ‘this is your time and this is your place. Have Your way and do Your stuff’. And when our songs are intertwined with faith and obedience God moves. The mystery has been welcomed, the moment has been surrendered, the correct order has been established, and the space has been created: God of Glory have your glory.<br /><br />In the Kingdom there is no space for another’s glory. There are no performers, stars or divas. There are no number one hits or award winners or song-charts or sell out gigs. All these things just confuse the kingdom. And the kingdom, though mysterious, is not confusing. There has never been any confusion. It is just for Him. Always has been. Always will be.<br /><br />Church, don’t stop talking the language and walking the journey that is the kingdom. Keep pursuing the mystery, keep living in the moment, keep everything in the correct order, and make sure the King has the space to move.<br /><br />God of Glory, have Your glory.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-26784131565531641712008-10-09T18:03:00.003+01:002008-10-09T18:08:38.340+01:00Far ReachingA couple of days ago I posted a joke about George Bush.<br /><br />One of my friends read it, and sent it to one of his friends, who sent it to her uncle, who works for the Obama Presidential campaign, where it has been very much appreciated in the Obama Camp.<br /><br />Good to know that my blog is now reaching the highest echelons of world politics.<br /><br />Beat that HitchmoNeil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-5849008370748856562008-10-08T20:26:00.004+01:002008-10-08T20:37:25.444+01:00My MotherWhen I was growing up, I never really understood why my mother did what she did.<br /><br />She used to feed up the cold meat from the Sunday roast on a Monday.<br />She used to wash our plastic sandwich bags so they could be used again the next day.<br />She used to re-use silver foil.<br />She used to get annoyed when we left lights on.<br />She used to say 'you can have coffee or squash, but not both'<br />She used to put the left-overs in little dishes in the fridge.<br />She used to make us walk rather than get a lift in the car.<br />She told us to put on another jumper, not the radiator.<br />She told us to look after the pennies and the pounds would look after themselves.<br />She used to moan about the way we put our foot on the accelerator.<br />She used to darn our socks and sew up our jumpers and tell us 'they will do for another year'.<br /><br />I never really understood why my mother did what she did.<br /><br />I do now.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-23276245465625358272008-10-05T15:26:00.001+01:002008-10-05T15:28:48.333+01:00Time for a joke<p>One sunny day in 2009, an old man approached the White House from across Pennsylvania Ave, where he’d been sitting on a park bench. He spoke to the US Marine standing guard and said, “I would like to go in and meet with President Bush.”</p> <p>The Marine looked at the man and said, “Sir, Mr. Bush is no longer president and no longer resides here.”</p> <p>The old man said, “Okay” and walked away.</p> <p>The following day, the same man approached the White House and said to the same Marine, “I would like to go in and meet with President Bush.”</p> <p>The Marine again told the man, “Sir, as I said yesterday, Mr. Bush is no longer president and no longer resides here.”</p> <p>The man thanked him and, again just walked away</p> <p>The third day, the same man approached the White House and spoke to the very same US Marine, saying “I would like to go in and meet with President Bush.”</p> <p>The Marine, understandably agitated at this point, looked at the man and said, “Sir, this is the third day in a row you have been here asking to speak to Mr. Bush. I’ve told you already that Mr. Bush is no longer the president and no longer resides here. Don’t you understand?”</p> <p>The old man looked at the Marine and said, “Oh, I understand. I just love hearing it.”</p> <p>The Marine snapped to attention, saluted, and said, “See you tomorrow, Sir.”</p>Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-73691731745156752182008-09-27T20:51:00.008+01:002008-09-27T21:02:32.216+01:00I don't get itI just don't get it.<br /><br />Apparently solving world poverty is unachievable because it is too expensive. The poverty line is people living off less than $1.25 per day, of which there are 1.4 billion (source, the world bank, August 2008).<br /><br />In the UK alone the average bonus to bankers was just under £200k last year. Adding up to around £40 billion.<br /><br />The USA can (nearly) agree a $700b rescue package for a group of over-paid bankers.<br /><br />Am I being stupid? I know it's some 20 years ago since I got my maths desgree, but even I can do the sums.<br /><br />And they don't add up.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-36624849532064091652008-09-27T10:06:00.004+01:002008-09-27T10:27:13.397+01:00Blessed is he who does not blog in the ways of unrighteousnessThe church, well the evangelical alliance, has come up with the 'ten commandments of blogging'. We at Trinity are doing some thinking about blogging generally at the moment as we are wanting to make sure we are using this potentially powerful way of communicating well.<br /><br />I have to say, that much of this is helpful, because it seems to me that one way to get a big blog-following is to court controversy, rather than engage in sensible honest debate. However, I would prefer to see some discussion on the positives. And that's why I am excited that we as a church are trying to get to grips with it. I am always of the opinion that the best way to be critical of something is to be creative, and hopefully at the end of our discussion we will come up with something that is truly positive and life giving, rather than just something that encourages negativity.<br /><br />Anyway, for the moment, here is the EA's view. You can see the full article <a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/faith/article4833275.ece">here</a>.<br /><br />1. You shall not put your blog before your integrity.<br />2. You shall not make an idol of your blog.<br />3. You shall not misuse your screen name by using your anonymity to sin.<br />4. Remember the Sabbath day by taking one day off a week from your blog.<br />5. Honour your fellow-bloggers above yourselves and do not give undue significance to their mistakes.<br />6. You shall not murder someone else’s honour, reputation or feelings.<br />7. You shall not use the web to commit or permit adultery in your mind.<br />8. You shall not steal another person’s content.<br />9. You shall not give false testimony against your fellow-blogger.<br />10.You shall not covet your neighbour's blog ranking. Be content with your own content.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-21159128895735866032008-09-25T14:25:00.001+01:002008-09-26T19:27:50.414+01:00ArsenalThe memory of 1989 will never die. The pain of that goal in the last minute that robbed Liverpool of the title they deserved will stay with me. Forever. And this is one of the main reasons that I, and so many other Liverpool fans, hate Arsenal.<br /><br />But even I have to confess, that I have found something good that has come out of the club. And it is their motivational handout. Presumably this has it’s source in Arsene Wenger. He’s not a Christian, or at least he’s keeping it pretty quiet if he is. But this stuff is great, and could be something a church leader came up with. OK, so a few important things are missing, like Jesus, but other than that, it’s probably really helpful.<br /><br />Team<br /><br />A team is a strong as the relationships within it. The driving force of a team is it’s member’s ability to create and maintain excellent relationships within the team that can add an extra dimension and robustness to the team dynamic. This attitude can be used by our team to focus on the gratitude and the vitally important benefits that the team brings to our own lives. It can be used to strengthen and deepen the relationships within it and maximise the opportunities that await a strong and united team.<br /><br />Our team becomes stronger by:<br /><br />-Displaying a positive approach on an off the pitch<br />-Everyone making the right decisions for the team<br />-Having an unshakeable belief that we can achieve our target<br />-Believe in the strength of the team<br />-Always want more - always give more<br />-Focus on our communication<br />-Be demanding with yourself<br />-Be fresh and well prepared to win<br />-Focus on being mentally stronger and always keep going to the end<br />-When we play away from home, believe in our identity and play the football we love to play at home.<br />-Stick together<br />-Stay grounded and humble as a player and as a person<br />-Show the desire to win in all that you do<br />-Enjoy and contribute to all that is special about being in a team - don’t take it for granted.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-88889221034099436362008-09-23T18:58:00.000+01:002008-09-23T18:59:49.987+01:00Contentment<span style="font-style: italic;">content: satisfied with what one is or has; not wanting more or anything else. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I have learned the secret of being content (Philippians 4, 12)</span><br /><br />What is the secret of being content?<br /><br />Contentment seems to be a quality in very short supply in our time and in our culture. In fact, more often that not, discontentment abounds. Most obvious in material things, it also rears it’s often unattractive head in relationships, in family life, in work and career. And it also seems to be evident by the bucket load in ministry. We want the bigger portfolio, we want the wider repute, we want the greater sales, we want to be leading the bigger conference.<br /><br />And actually, some discontentment is good. It is good to want more of God, it is good to want more of his kingdom reign. It is good to want to be more effective in our lives. But how do we differentiate between a ‘good’ discontentment, and a ‘bad’ discontentment, because the lines are often very blurred (or at least, it is very easy for us to make them seem blurred).<br /><br />It seems to me that most people I come across in ministry know their identity in Jesus. They know that they are saved, that they are a children God, that God loves them and has set them apart for a purpose. But there are far fewer people that have gone beyond this and worked out what that purpose is: what their calling really is. This lack of understanding about calling leaves a vacuum which gets filled with unhealthy ambition which all-to-often is never really satisfied, and leads to constant discontentment.<br /><br />The ‘bad’ sort.<br /><br />It tends to result in the chasing after things that shouldn’t be chased after in order to gain praise or recognition; trying to build empires of responsibility and influence that give an illusion of purpose and power; fighting your own corner to give an impression of significance or importance. In a word - insecurity.<br /><br />Discontentment and insecurity. What a potentially explosive and destructive combination!<br /><br />So the question is - do we really know what our God given calling is?<br /><br />Of course, it’s very hard to condense into a few sentences but for me:<br /><br />I think I am called to be a dedicated ‘second chair’ leader. Understanding this stops me trying to pursue being the ‘number one’ in a church, going for ordination, or church planting; I think I am primarily called to lead worship in my church. Understanding this stops me feeling undervalued when I don’t get asked to do hundreds of huge conferences all over the world; I think I am called to write and not preach. Understanding this means that I am not putting wasted energy in getting better at public speaking, or getting distracted to pursue speaking engagements; I think I am primarily called to be a songwriter, but not a recording artists. It means I focus my time writing songs, either on my own, or in partnership, and don’t try and pursue record deals; I think I am more and more called to use what position and influence I have to give other people every chance of success. It means that when people I invest in do well, or better than me, I take it as a compliment rather than a threat.<br /><br />And in this process I have found out that often my effectiveness, my passions, my enjoyment, my strengths all tend to point towards my calling. The things that come more naturally point to the things I think I should, if I can, put most of my efforts into.<br /><br />It’s not that calling doesn’t change over time - God may very quickly shut some doors and open others - and so we constantly need to have listening ears. But there is a great sense of contentment at understanding what we are called to do, and trying to do that - and only that - with as much enthusiasm and excellence and fruitfulness as possible.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-19962248531646074612008-09-21T21:23:00.002+01:002008-09-21T21:28:54.915+01:00Victory is AssuredEven <a href="http://www.appleinsider.com/articles/08/09/19/microsofts_im_a_pc_campaign_created_with_macs.html">Microsoft</a> uses a mac.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-69019862273420442372008-09-19T15:22:00.002+01:002008-09-19T15:33:30.399+01:00RespectThere is a lovely elderly couple who I regularly bump into in my new-found second office, cafe nero. They are polite and dignified, well dressed and well spoken. The first time I spoke to them, she expressed her obvious pride in her husband, and his continued well being and perkiness, finishing with the phrase ‘you wouldn’t think he was 90 would you?’.<br /><br />My first thought was ‘well actually yes I would’.<br /><br />You see my own assessment of his ‘perkiness’ is slightly less positive than his wife, given that he looks like he could topple over every time he moves and that every lift of his coffee cup was accompanied with a worrying wobble and much huffing and puffing. In fact if I’m totally honest I am surprised, and slightly relieved, when he makes it through the next week.<br /><br />However, there is something in me, when I chat with them, that wants to refer to them as ‘sir’ and ‘madam’. Which is strange really, because that feels very old-fashioned. But I somehow think this would please them, and show one of those good old values that in culture today is not really in abundance - respect.<br /><br />As a worship leader of some years now, I have been through the times where the old has been steadily replaced by the new. In fact I have been around so long that even what was new is now old and there is a new even newer new.<br /><br />If you see what I mean.<br /><br />As we’ve gone through changes in our worship, from choirs to vocalists, from organists to worship leaders, from pianos to guitars, from hymns to choruses and on to anthems, I have experienced, and probably been party to, some moments of arrogance, of unhelpful words, and disparaging critisism of what has gone before. Those pressing for the new wine often seem to be people who are disrespectful of the old wine. And I’m not sure that is Jesus’ way.<br /><br />Jesus himself represented a complete change when He came walked this earth. His appearance heralded the end of the sacrificial form of worship, the end of the temple as the only place of worship. He represented the ultimate challenge to old wine and the greatest initiator of all things new. Yet despite this, he remained totally respectful of what went before. Whether that was in the way he remained in the temple when he was 12 teaching in the place he called his Father’s house, or whether later in His life in the clearing of the temple of the traders. Yes, He was very obviously critical of hypocrisy of some of the religious leaders, but alongside that he seemed to be totally respectful of the institutions and places of worship that had for so long been the focal point of people’s worship.<br /><br />It seems to me that we could, as a generation of worship leaders seeking the new things, learn to be more respectful of the things, and people, that have gone before. In our desire to continually catch the wind of the Spirit and where He blows, let us never become disrespectful of those things and people who have brought us thus far.<br /><br />Having respect doesn't mean that we aren't challenging and forthright when we sense change is needed. It just ensure we handle that change in a dignified and godly way.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-89104674902150684552008-09-09T10:49:00.001+01:002008-09-09T10:51:19.986+01:00Tools of the TradeThere used to be a time when, if you wanted to be a worship leader, you needed to have access to a guitar or keyboard to play; you needed the support and guidance of a church leadership to help identify and nurture your gifting; and you needed to live in a community where you want to serve the people of that community.<br /><br />Now it seems that you need access to a MAC to write your tunes; you need the support and guidance of a record company to help shape and market your songs; and you need to live near an airport to give you easy access to the town, city or country where your next concert is held.<br /><br />OK, so maybe I’m being a little harsh.<br /><br />But it does seem to me that there is a huge danger for worship leaders, and also church leaders and speakers, to slowly, but surely, over time, distance themselves from involvement within their own local church. But why does that happen?<br /><br />Well I think that one of the reasons is that we get ‘ministry-weary’ in our local church: we find that, after a number of years, we find it tough choosing yet another set of songs for Sunday; we get tired of having another Sunday taken up with ministry rather than family; we loose the spark that fires us to pressing into God and what he is doing in our own local church in order to write yet another song.<br /><br />Compare that with: we find that we can choose a song set that works and then use it in many towns and cities that we travel to without having to work at a new one; we can do our concerts during the week so that we can still relax on Sundays, have our roast dinner and then doze in front of the TV watching the golf; we can use the song we wrote last year again and again and leave the writing of the new songs until we have that well earned rest in Barbados later in the year.<br /><br />And I can sort of understand that. In many ways, it is easier for me to lead worship at New Wine for a few days in the summer, with it’s big gathering, with it’s sense of anticipation, and sense of ‘new-ness’ than for me to lead worship week in week out at Trinity.<br /><br />Maybe I’m being a bit harsh. But the question remains - how do we stop ourselves becoming weary with our local church ministry.<br /><br />Well I’d like to suggest a few things that I find helpful. These are just what are working for me at the moment.<br /><br />-Stay connected to your church leadership, and see the bigger picture of what you are doing at your church.<br /><br />-Have a realistic opinion of yourself and what your ministry can achieve: there is a danger that we overestimate the impact our ministry has on the worldwide church and underestimate the impact our ministry has on our own local church.<br /><br />-Listen to testimonies of what God is doing in your congregation. Seek out good news stories. Encourage people to give glory to God by sharing the good things he has done.<br /><br />-Read books that talk about God and not just about worship. Make this a higher priority than purchasing every worship album under the sun and analysing it to death.<br /><br />-Connect yourself with other worship leaders in other churches that are doing what you are doing. Make this a higher priority than getting to the next big worship conference/live recording.<br /><br />-Remember you are not in a competition to have the best worship ministry; you are in a battle to see the kingdom extended.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-28447614174266612522008-09-04T13:35:00.001+01:002008-09-04T13:38:27.362+01:00HealerThis situation is so tragic. I’m sure you’ve heard all about it now. I was on holiday when a friend sent me a text saying that Mike Guglielmucci, the writer of the song ‘healer’ has actually never had cancer.<br /><br />My first reaction was a combination of anger and sadness. The fact that someone had purposely deceived a whole load of people in order, so it seemed, to get a profile for himself and, maybe more significantly (at least financially), a song, felt outrageous.<br /><br />And part of it was frustration, because I had fallen for the song and the testimony hook line and sinker. I was really moved by the story and loved the song. The power of testimony is so strong, and this one was, on the face of it, one of the most powerful I had heard.<br /><br />Now I’m not the sort of person who would say ‘I thought there was something strange’ or ‘I never really liked the song’. But I sort of wish that I was that prophetic that I could have smelt the wiff of something dodgy a mile off. But I’m not, and I didn’t, and it was frustrating.<br /><br />And of course then the full story came to light. Mike was using the cancer story to cover up another issue in his life. And apparently he wasn’t ‘found out’ but he confessed. And he confessed in response to the voice of God telling him to sort it out. Of course we might want to view anything that is reported on this now with a fair degree of scepticism, but it seems like all the money is being paid back as well, and that Mike is going through counselling. All of which is good.<br /><br />But how do I react as a worship leader who has used the song regularly, even at a national conference like new wine this summer.<br /><br />Well, the first thing always on my mind is that my fundamental task as a worship leader is to gather people together for an encounter with God, and that everything I do should have the aim of setting people’s attention on Him. And for that reason alone, at this moment in time, my view is that I should lay the song aside and not use it, at least for a season while things settle down. Yes I know that the song is good, and was probably inspired by God, and speaks truth. But I think that at the moment if I use it either I, or the congregation, will have the current tragic circumstances brought to mind, and my job is to put people’s attention on God, not on someone else’s tragic circumstances.<br /><br />The other thing that I feel tempted to do is make some sort of statement by using the song - you know, that every worship song is probably inspired by God, but written by someone with some measure of sin in their lives - which is probably true - so I will use it to make a point. But again, my role as a worship leader is not to make statements, or make points, but to lead people into an encounter with God. And for that reason also, I want to lay the song down for a season.<br /><br />But I do hope this song will come back into the worshiping life of our church at some point. Once the story has faded away from our radars a bit, and hopefully we hear of a measure of restoration in Mike, then I see no reason why it shouldn’t. And just to show I am hopefully being consistent, I still use Prosch songs, and Carl Tuttle songs. Of course the other issue is that issue of money - some people will argue that, since a songwriter potentially gets a few pence when one of their songs is used in a church, then we should be sure of a songwriters absolute integrity before we use the song. Well good luck with that one. Ee may find our song-lists end up being very short.<br /><br />This is a tragic story, in a long list of tragic stories for many worship leaders down the years. It is tragic firstly for Mike and his family, and then for his church. But one of the worst things we can do is let events like this harden our hearts, or stop us from seeing good things in people, or stop us receiving good things from God, or wanting to tell the story of good things in our lives to encourage people in the future.Neil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4202553940951540075.post-56135675755332181442008-08-12T07:45:00.001+01:002008-08-12T07:47:25.883+01:00HolidayI am now off on holiday for the rest of August, and part of that will mean not spending too much time on my beloved mac, so there may not be many posts in the next few weeks.<br /><br />Regular posting should recommence in early SeptemberNeil Bennettshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06102739454181790162noreply@blogger.com0